Sunday, December 22, 2024

Oh, this? Just your love and sex horoscope for the weekend

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What’s happening: The Moon enters Capricorn tonight while Mars and Mercury form a sextile, encouraging you to be more social and flirtatious. Then, the Moon moves into Aquarius late Sunday night, forming somewhat difficult aspects to the other planets until it enters cool Pisces on Wednesday morning and everything calms down a bit.

Mercury is trine Saturn on Wednesday, too, helping you start any important conversations with your partner. At the same time, Venus is at the bending of the North and South Nodes, encouraging you to shed your baggage so you can move forward into a better, healthier, happier love life. This transit often implies a big choice, so new love connections and major relationship shifts can easily happen right now.

What that means for your star sign

Aries

Not gonna lie, Aries, but this is not a very sexy week for your sign. There’s a lot of introspection happening and you’re extra emotional. You keep thinking about your past relationships and how you’ve carried their negative habits and patterns into the present. Right now, you’re being given the choice whether to hold onto those unhealthy habits or cut out the toxic patterns and proceed into a better love life. This might mean fighting with your partner, finding a new person, or even reconnecting with an ex. You’re at a crossroads, Aries. It’s up to you to pick the right path.

Taurus

Your love life is smooth sailing this weekend! If you’re interested in hooking up, you’re having no problem finding someone to fool around with right now. If you’re looking for a date, you’re extra flirty and charming, thanks to Mercury’s help. If you’re already coupled up, this is a great time to experiment and try new things in bed. Sounds great! Unfortunately, the drama with Venus in the middle of the week suggests that you’re reconnecting with someone from the past (and not someone you’re particularly fond of). My advice? Protect your peace. That does not mean fighting or trying to push this ex away — it means you need to be calm, put in effort, and try to resolve the issue. You’ll find that you’ve finally moved on from them, and then you can focus on all of the good things happening in your present love life.

Gemini

You’re having an emotional weekend. If you’re happily coupled up, this can be a very romantic, intimate time. But if you’re single, you’re probably feeling especially lonely. The Aquarius Moon at the top of the week lifts your spirits, but self-doubt is nagging at the back of your mind. This feeling prevents you from really enjoying love right now. Are you enough for your partner? Are you attractive enough to get a date? Are you good enough in bed for your hookups to have fun? Fake it ‘til you make it, Gemini. You might be feeling crummy, but you need to gas yourself up! This confidence can be feigned at first, but it’ll get you the attention, validation, and positive feedback that you’re hungry for. Then you’ll start to believe in yourself and feel a sense of real confidence. You’re the shit!

Cancer

Venus in your sign plus the Moon in your chart’s relationships zone all weekend create a grand opportunity for love. Whether it’s a hookup, a date, or romantic time with your partner, you’re much luckier with love. When Venus squares the Nodes on Wednesday, you’re thinking about all of those positive experiences, who you had them with, and how they made you feel. Focus on what works for you — your expert flirting skills, your sex appeal, your prowess in bed, your love for romance, the way you connect with others — and really hone that skill. Identify the things that don’t work and try to improve them. Love more and you’ll be loved more.

Leo

Venus in Cancer has not been the best transit for your love life. New love is hard to find, or your relationship feels stagnant, or you’re being reminded of exes. The Aquarius Moon at the beginning of the week gives you a little reprieve and activates your chart’s relationships zone. This is your chance to date, hook up, and have a little fun! The end of the week is a little tough, though. There is definitely no new love coming into your life, and you’re likely to be confronted with something (or someone) problematic. Use this as an opportunity to remind yourself what you don’t want to experience and make note of all the red flags about this person. Now, commit to never wasting time with someone like that again.

Virgo

You’re having some fun with this weekend’s astrology! Your theme is everything/anything new. Go somewhere new for date night, or take your partner on a day trip. Treat yourself to some lingerie or toys to spice things up. Hook up with someone new, try something kinky, or maybe invite a third (or fourth, etc.) person into bed for some fun. Any kind of variety, a little or a lot, leads to having tons of fun this weekend. Go get wild!

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Libra

The Aquarius Moon at the start of the week activates your chart’s zone of romance, sex, and fun, so you’re having a great time with your hookup/person, in or out of bed — but mostly in bed 😏. That’s nice and all, but the astro later in the week wants you to get serious, just for a beat or two. You’re being urged to look at yourself and the relationship(s) you’re in. What motivates you to be with this person? Is it mutual love and respect? Is it having a good time and getting to know them more? Or are you simply seeking validation from whoever will provide it?

Scorpio

All week long, you’re being encouraged to spice things up. Trying a new spot for date night, going on a date with someone who’s not your usual type, or getting ~kinky~ all lead to a really great time. I encourage you to have a lot of fun with this astro! Then, I want you to look at all of the fun things you did and all of the exciting things you sampled, and figure out which things you liked the most. How can you keep them in your love/sex life in the long term? Figure that out, and your love life will improve by leaps and bounds!

Sagittarius

You pride yourself in your independence, but lately you’ve been feeling a bit codependent. You might be tempted to ghost your date, leave your person on “read” all day, or maybe even break up with your partner — but I really encourage you to wait a sec before making that choice. You can exist outside of a relationship while still having a meaningful connection with your significant other. Don’t let a fear of losing your independence hold you back from experiencing romance, sex, and fun. You don’t have to be a lone wolf! This isn’t an “either/or” situation — you can do both! It’s called interdependence.

Capricorn

This is a great week for relationship building. The Moon in your sign this weekend helps you open up and make deep, meaningful connections. Mercury in your chart’s relationships zone connects with fiery Mars in the sexiest part of your chart, too, so you’re feeling extra flirtatious and horny, too. If you’ve been meaning to start any important conversations with your partner — DTRing, moving in together, or even marriage — focused Mercury trine serious Saturn on Wednesday is the best astro you could ask for.

Aquarius

FWBs, situationships, and serious relationships require you and the other person to be on equal footing. There shouldn’t be one person “in control”; instead, each person should feel comfortably independent. If your partner/date/hookup is taking advantage of you in any regard, you’re calling them out this week. Breaking up with someone always stings, but you need to rip off the Band-Aid. Get rid of the garbage. Tell them they can’t pass Go, they can’t collect £200, they’re going straight to jail. You deserve a partner who’s just as good for you as you are for them.

Pisces

You are on fire this weekend, Pisces! You’re in a good mood, and you’re feeling extroverted and charming. Finding a fling for a little flirting and fun is a breeze, and you have way more confidence and stamina in bed. Have a great time this weekend, because the astro later this week is more serious. Stern Saturn is asking you to take love more seriously and investigate the way you express your feelings to others —even if it’s just a casual hookup. If you’re having safe sex, participating in healthy relationships (AKA no ghosting, being flaky, or playing games), and being yourself, you’ll face zero problems this week. But if you have any unhealthy behaviours, you’re not able to ignore them any more.

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